JOURNAL ENTRY #97 Where have I been part 5

I don't come across too many blogs dedicated to the elderly. I have looked but maybe I am not using the right search words.  I wonder about the validity of some of the blogs I have seen. There are so many components to care-giving.  One aspect is home care.  How do do you write about that honestly?  How do you share your home attendant stories, especially if you are like a lot of folks who can't afford the agencies?  Since my mother has been living with her sister for the past 11 years I have seen a lot of home attendants.  Some have dealt with my mother directly but most have worked for my aunt, solely.  It is difficult for me to communicate current experiences regarding them so I stay quiet.  Not because the experiences are bad.  For the most part they are good.  However, dealing with human beings things get weird.    And actually there are not a lot of differences between agency folks and non agency folks after the background checks.  One day I will share specifics.